10 Signs That Your Partner Is About To Hitch Another Ride Without You


Relationships whether romantic, personal or professional are a lot like purchasing a brand new ride. At first, everything about the relationship sounds and looks okay. You goofy around with each other for weeks or months perhaps even years of awesome loving before you begin to think of commitment which at that point can sour things up more than you think. And just like when a car breaks down and you get stuck on the side of the road trying to figure out what went wrong, relationships get to a certain point where you pause and try to remember how things got muddled in the first place.

When a relationship gets stuck like that, the feeling can so be overwhelming, terrifying, heart-aching and sometimes we end up wishing it didn’t exist in the first place. But one with eagle eyes would know when there is trouble in paradise just like a trained eye knows when a car is about to break down.

With our eagle’s eyes, we want to give you the sign to look out for. With these, you no longer need to be worried that you’re about to get dumped. They are simply some tip-offs to an oncoming ouster to help you step off before you get stepped on. Look out for any of them when you are afraid your partner is about to walk and opt out before you he/she calls it a day.

1. Resentment


Are your past mistakes always popping up in your relationship? Does your partner make reference to something you did a long time ago that didn’t take up to a minute or more, perhaps turns it into a big issue and get deeply angry about it? Take this for a fact, it could be a sign of resentment way more than the mistake itself.

Based on the Gottman Relationship Institute, resentment will often start from one partner or both partners not feeling understood, or as if what matters to them is not valued, and could be a sign that the relationship is about turn into history.

2. Lack of Physical Intimacy


If your sex life suddenly turns into a dull repetitive event or a drab thing that only happens once after a long while because one of you have lost the desire entirely. This could be a sign that your relationship is failing or a sign that your partner wants out. But, before deciding to opt out, you are advised to try spicing things up by trying to relight the fire that always light up your sex life. This may include adding flavor to the old positions or introducing new ones as well or even changing completely or partially the environment where it normally happens. You could equally change attitude and level of affection towards each other during this time.

If you do all that and the tension persists, you might as well prepare your mind for the inevitable end.


4. When They Start Pulling Away


If you used to stick around each other at every little opportunity you have or do things together all the time, and all of a sudden your partner starts pulling apart, better watch it. Perhaps, your partner is now cool with the habit of spending time alone more often, and, or going out alone regularly unlike before. Or your partner dishes out the “I want to be alone speech” or obviously shows he or she is no longer ready to spend as much time with you as before… then it is possible that he or she wants out.

In the same vein, if  the two of you are sharing apartment and one of you has been spending more time at work or taking work trips just so he or she will avoid the idea of going home early or being around you and is happier alone than with you, try to mend things possibly by figuring out what you are not doing right at that moment. If it persists, honey, just move away on time before you are moved out.

5. Lack of Interest


According to relationship expert and author Rachel DeAlto, “In love, you know your relationship is over when you become indifferent,” she says, adding that “if you don’t care what he does, where he goes, or whether you even see him, it is time to move on.”

In the same vein, if any one of you begins to make things that matter personal or either of you no longer talk about necessary things or even things that bother you, it could be an indication that your relationship is on its way out. Perhaps one of you has already moved on and is just waiting for the right time spill the big news.

But then again, before you start considering a breakup, try taking a time out, maybe a walk or sit out with no distractions and know whether conversation will flow more easily. If it proves to be extremely hard or impossible, then it becomes obvious that one of you just doesn’t care anymore. Do the needful, walk out before your partner walks on you because it could be that your partner is fed up and is only using you as a filler in the relationship before he finds someone new.

Also, if your partner has acutely become withdrawn from you and rarely tries to find out what is going on with you. In fact,  your partner no longer want to know anything about you that he or she usually crave to know or has no idea what is going on in your life, then it is time to wrap it up.